Love Wtf? (rant)

Discussion in 'Spam Heaven' started by Anti-Hero, Feb 26, 2006.

  1. kirbir

    kirbir Senior Member

    Age:
    40
    Posts:
    17,226
    Likes Received:
    0
    Joined:
    Aug 8, 2005
    Location:
    England/Manchester
    Thats good to hear that your both still going strong ;)

    Some people find love early on, some find it later on in life, just the way things go i suppose. You just make sure you keep hold of her, you hear ;)
     
  2. Br4dley

    Br4dley Well-Known Member

    Age:
    36
    Posts:
    1,226
    Likes Received:
    0
    Joined:
    Aug 9, 2005
    Location:
    Canada, eh?
    indeed i love hur plentyful....

    she meens alot to mee and i try and spend every minute i have with hur...

    once i walked 3 hours to go visit hur and we only goto to hang out for 25 minutes then i had to walk 3 hours back lol....

    [​IMG]
     
  3. G.S.Design

    G.S.Design Senior Member

    Age:
    35
    Posts:
    2,532
    Likes Received:
    0
    Joined:
    Feb 23, 2006
    Location:
    PORTUGAL
    Well i got a question im tall/broadshoulders a bit chibby but you cant see really and alot of chubby/overweight or ugly skinny girls like me and none of the good lookikng ones do... wtf is up with that..note:i dress ghetto and i go to a rocker/redneck school which i hate!!!!!
    and alot of the girls are sluts and hoes

    Also note i got a thing for blondes and spanish chicks =) so the only reason i like some of these overweight girls are cause they are sweet and kind to me and soem are blonde they are prety cute just a chubby belly
     
  4. DemsLover

    DemsLover Senior Member

    Age:
    37
    Posts:
    756
    Likes Received:
    0
    Joined:
    Sep 28, 2005
    Location:
    Ye Olde England
    that sucks really loads,
    andi can relate to the gay thing :|
    ive been asked my number like twice by some guys lol i just took it as a complement, and the girls that like me i dont really like them, and the girls that like me and i like them never say and always say it too late, so i dont even bother :(
    id be really pissed that she had the abortion without telling me though, you seem to have handled that well

    sorry mate
     
  5. DoomedKiller

    DoomedKiller Well-Known Member

    Age:
    35
    Posts:
    688
    Likes Received:
    0
    Joined:
    Aug 7, 2005
    well mabye cause none of the hot 1s like u so there ya go prob sovleved
     
  6. Bona Fide

    Bona Fide Well-Known Member

    Age:
    37
    Posts:
    4,067
    Likes Received:
    0
    Joined:
    Dec 31, 2004
    Location:
    New York, USA
    Girls don't want just sex. And I'm sorry if your relationship has left you feeling like that.

    I've been with my girl for nearly 2 years now. The topic of sex has come up once. Just once. We both decided that we are going to wait on it until we both feel comfortable.

    That is not to say that sex ruins relationships. Apparently, it really helps good relationships, and really destroys weak ones. But anyway, sorry about the tough break. Life goes on, bro. Find the next girl and see what happens. :)
     
  7. kirbir

    kirbir Senior Member

    Age:
    40
    Posts:
    17,226
    Likes Received:
    0
    Joined:
    Aug 8, 2005
    Location:
    England/Manchester
    ^ I agree with him.

    There are so many other things that can ruin a relationship, i also think what Bona is doing is very sweet, not many guys would wait for the girl, or the right moment to have sex.
     
  8. DarkDrakeX

    DarkDrakeX Senior Member

    Posts:
    1,353
    Likes Received:
    0
    Joined:
    Feb 6, 2005
    Location:
    Georgia
    girls dont liek you cuz you come on a forum and complain about how your GF dumped you.... the whole abortion thing then leaves you kinda ----ty idk what to day. gl with her tho..
     
  9. Blazeman

    Blazeman Am I Evil?

    Age:
    37
    Posts:
    5,915
    Likes Received:
    1
    Joined:
    Oct 16, 2004
    Location:
    Maryland
    I’ll tell you want I honestly think a girl wants, because I’ve been raised by a mother who has longed for so many years to actually be able to love as much as she loved. So she instilled in me what she wanted the most. A woman wants something that most man can never bring themselves to see. Love is only the beginning what comes after is what makes any relationship living for. For them simply making an extra effort to go and get them flowers on a day that has no meaning or telling them you care about them when its out of the blue. You have to look at relationships as a chain most man will do the big things for a woman. They’ll take them out for there anniversary or get her something for her birthday. Even when they do something big like take them to the beach, men in their head figure that its enough to satisfy. What makes them so wrong is that those are big things like Big pieces of a chain, but nothing is holding those chains together making it impossible for anything to stay connect… It’s the little things you do in a relationship that will connect the big things you do. It’s the things you do out of your way to make her happy that will always keep her happy.


    I might be wrong and It might not be true for every woman, but this comes from the heart :)

    -Blazeman
     
  10. kirbir

    kirbir Senior Member

    Age:
    40
    Posts:
    17,226
    Likes Received:
    0
    Joined:
    Aug 8, 2005
    Location:
    England/Manchester
    I whole heartedly agree with that, the big things do not matter to me...just hearing my bf tell me he loves me is enough. I dont need him to take me away or anything like that, just the little things will last a lifetime.

    Little things go alot further than the bigger things, imo anyway :)
     
  11. Blazeman

    Blazeman Am I Evil?

    Age:
    37
    Posts:
    5,915
    Likes Received:
    1
    Joined:
    Oct 16, 2004
    Location:
    Maryland
    :)

    I'm glad you agree kinda scared to post that
     
  12. kirbir

    kirbir Senior Member

    Age:
    40
    Posts:
    17,226
    Likes Received:
    0
    Joined:
    Aug 8, 2005
    Location:
    England/Manchester
    You should never be scared about your feelings, you are your own person. No matter what people may think about you, it shouldnt matter. ;)
     
  13. Blazeman

    Blazeman Am I Evil?

    Age:
    37
    Posts:
    5,915
    Likes Received:
    1
    Joined:
    Oct 16, 2004
    Location:
    Maryland
    Since we are on the topic of "love"

    Love is a word...It has no meaning to me at all. But what it represents is something that neither one single word can actually define. I've been in love to the point of I did anything I could to make that woman happy. It blinds you from reality and gives you a new perspective of life.

    Love means what? That you care about another person to a point of you can't stop being with her? Or does it mean you just like them? Or.... It’s a word that has a meaning more than you and I can possibly touch on and truly understand. Or is it a word just used for a key to have sex with the girl you've been trying to get with?

    Only by experience do you actually understand what it means and how it makes you feel. To explain what it means is like explaining the meaning of life. Its almost impossible to define, becuase if you really ever do fall in love you its better than any drug you'll ever try or any thing you have ever done. That one single some one gives you everything you have been missing in your life.

    -Blazeman
     
  14. MonsterLishis

    MonsterLishis Well-Known Member

    Age:
    34
    Posts:
    959
    Likes Received:
    0
    Joined:
    Mar 16, 2005
    Location:
    Philly
    Kirb, do you have a little book of little optimistic quotes next to your computer? lol.

    If not you really should think about writing one. Maybe you can get them pubished in those toilet books with optimistic quotes in them ^_^


    o btw, 700th post yey :D
     
  15. kirbir

    kirbir Senior Member

    Age:
    40
    Posts:
    17,226
    Likes Received:
    0
    Joined:
    Aug 8, 2005
    Location:
    England/Manchester
    Well said Blazeman :wub:

    lol @ MonsterLishis

    To be honest, i have so many people on my msn because of reasons i can not tell you, i mainly add them because they need and want my help. People tell me i should be an agony aunt, lol. I have helped so many people out, whether it be a death in the family, gf/bf trouble, drugs, basically whatever they need my help with. People find it easier to talk to me than they do talking to a member of their family. I help alot of my friends out also.

    I dont know..maybe i just like to help people out in anyway i can, whether it be giving them advice/talking to them, or just listening to them. Everyone needs someone to help them through something in their life, whether it be a huge or small thing, i guess i am just one of those people who are there for others. :)
     

Share This Page