Ok I am with a girl one and a half years ask her to get married and she says she don’t want kids or to get married ever (I got over this bit and said I love you so it wont matter what any paper says) then a few month pass (4-5 coming on been with each other 2 years) she tells me she has had a abortion (I knew she was pregnant) and finish’s with me!!11!!?! Yesterday over msn WTF…. Why don’t girls and me work? Ive done modeling I speak 3 languages and 1 pc language read and doing well in life and my family have money so why do girls just want sex? I am a gentleman and like girly stuff I do the housework and am well groomed most ppl think I am gay And yet girls don’t want nothing serious with me am I cursed? Do you have to be stupid to get a good girl? And also on a 2nd note how ----ing stupid are girls you come out of a relationship and they start asking you on dates? Ppl ive never heard of texting me asking for dates. You may ask why am I telling you this and why am I posting over the net the reason is the portion of this site is mixed gender and age and none of you know whom I am so you will not agree with every thing I say, so in result I might get some ok advice on what I am doing wrong in life. any 1 else had bad luck with love?
I know what you mean. I'm not really very good with girls yet, although I want to be. It seems all the girls go for the worse types most of the time.
Girls want something to complain about. so they only date men who are complete asses, just to make sure they can complain to friends and family. lolz, j/k offcourse. You're not doing anything wrong, but asking for marriage after 1.5 years is a bit early imo. I don't know how old you are, but your behaviour depends on age. however breaking up after 2 years, via msn is really really sad. If i was a life-mod i would ban her lol. Someone who does that isn't very mature... I think the best thing to do is wait, and see what comes by. maybe the right girl is right under your nose, but you never thought about it. good luck in the future man ^_^
man,that sucks i'm really sorry i'm 14 and not to brag but alot of girls like me... not all of them look good but stilll and i just stayy single so i can remain friends w/ everybody because i find it alot easier to get along that way... -King-
Yea.. Tell me about it I get asked it a lot by girls~ like your talking away and they really enjoy the conversation and all over a sudden it just comes out “your gay aren’t you” or “are you gay?” And I am mature I have my own flat near the riverside and a car and a motorbike however I look really young well i am young soon 21 And she knew I wanted a long engagement in a way wanted to know how serious it was getting and enough time so I could tell my mother and let her come to terms with the idea
Well.... girls like to think that the perfect man is gay sometimes, usually a person they can have a nice conversation with... lol.
Girls have a stereotyped idea of gay people. They think males homosexuals are more emotional, they aren't machos and all those kinds of thing which is totally false. Mainly those kinds of guy which they aren't always over themselves, they are really interested into knowing what the other person is and girls that have to stereotype in minds had always experience with guys that are the complete opposite of that. You'll probably have a hard time finding the right girl, considering most of them will probably prefer you as a friend cause of your personality.
None rly she missed 2 weeks of the pill due to been away from home over xmas with me, and was the right time kinda just happened (like we knew that she wuld get preg but didn’t rly stop it happing protection wise) so after we got back home she never took the pill again. We both agreed if it happened we would support and keep it, i can fund a baby and i did kinda want one in a way. Was freaky at first but meh even though she said she wasn’t keen on the idea and didn’t want one a few month back I thought she had came to terms with it. I wouldn’t be a father unless I could be a good father I agreed that she could do part time work and I would do the shifts I do now I mean some people have kids and the household brings in like 1700quid a Month working 40 hours and that’s 2 parents so kids cant be that expensive I mean part time hours at my cousins store would give 250 a week that’s a grand a month I could quit my job and work 20 hours a week and we would be better of then some ppl that slave 40 hours for 1700
you went through all that, and she just had an abortion without telling you? thats terrible. As for me and my scene with the girls, instead of having girlfriends, i have very good friends who are girls, it makes life so much easier. with girlfriends, you breakup, and loose one of your closest friends. but if you just have friends, you will almost never lose a friend. i think the grammar in there was probably terrible, but thats what i get for ignoring my english homework